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Http://adrianne-m-findley.memory-of.com
2006 "BLUE RIBBON' WINNER -
GRANT COUNTY FAIR
Andye's gift from her Mommy for her
24th Birthday!!
Andye's 23rd Birthday Present
from her Mommy!!!
Adrianne Marie Findley
    
 
     
 
A Kiss For Mommy from Braiden
 
MY LITTLE ANGEL
You've just walked on ahead of me
And I've got to understand
You must release the ones you love
And let go of their hand.
I try and cope the best I can
But I'm missing you so much
If I could only see you
And once more feel your touch.
Yes, you've just walked on ahead of me
Don't worry I'll be fine
But now and then I swear I feel
Your hand slip into mine.
For Andye's 4th Rebirthday!!!
Sent by Kerry and Mark Wagers
 
 
Made by Deborah Northcutt
with Love for my Andye!!!
In Memory of
 Adrianne M. Findley
Adrianne M. Findley
Adrianne M. Findley was born in Ft. Worth,Texas
to Deborah A Northcutt Findley and Richard A. Findley {deceased} and died in Williamstown, Kentucky on a very cold and dark December night. She leaves behind a 10 day old son who will never get to know his Mother and remember her as she lived.
Not a day goes by, that I don't think about Adrianne, for you see I am her Mother. I was with her that cold and dark December night, but I didn't get to say Good-Bye to Andye, for I was unconconcious and in a coma for 6 days. When I
woke up from my coma, she was already buried. So now, I want to tell you all about her, so that she
will be forever loved in writing this memorial for her.
 
Andye Findley
 
"IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN" IS THE SONG THAT
I WOULD HAVE WANTED PLAYED AT ANDYE'S FUNERAL SERVICE IF I COULD HAVE BEEN THERE. I WAS IN A COMA AT THE TIME OF HER FUNERAL. I NEVER GOT TO SAY "GOOD-BYE" OR GIVE HER ONE "LAST KISS".
THIS WEB-SITE IS MY LAST KISS TO ANDYE!!!
 
"IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN"
BY REBA MCENTIRE
 
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
IT WAS THE LAST WALK IN THE RAIN.
I'D KEEP YOU OUT FOR HOURS IN THE STORM.
I WOULD HOLD YOUR HAND
LIKE A LIFE LINE TO MY HEART
UNDERNEATH THE THUNDER WE'D BE WARM
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
IT WAS OUR LAST WALK IN THE RAIN.
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
I'D NEVER HEAR YOUR VOICE AGAIN
I'D MEMORIZE EACH THING YOU EVER SAID
AND ON THOSE LONELY NIGHTS
I COULD THINK OF THEM ONCE MORE
KEEP YOUR WORDS ALIVE INSIDE MY HEAD
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
I'D NEVER HEAR YOUR VOICE AGAIN
YOU WERE THE TREASURE IN MY HAND
YOU WERE THE ONE WHO ALWAYS
STOOD BESIDE ME
SO UNAWARE I FOOLISHLY BELIEVED
THAT YOU WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE
BUT THEN THERE CAME A DAY
AND I TURNED MY HEAD AND
YOU SLIPPED AWAY
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
IT WAS MY LAST NIGHT BY YOUR SIDE
I'D PRAY A MIRACLE WOULD STOP THE DAWN
AND WHEN YOU'D SMILE AT ME
I WOULD LOOK INTO YOUR EYES
AND MAKE SURE YOU KNOW
MY LOVE FOR YOU GOES ON AND ON
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
THE LOVE I WOULD'VE SHOWN
IF I HAD ONLY KNOWN
TRANSCRIBED BY DEBORAH NORTHCUTT
Adrianne
Marie
Findley
11 June, 1983 -
14 December, 2002
MY DAUGHTER
 
MY DAUGHTER ANDYE MY BEAUTIFUL GIRL
TOO SOON YOU WAS TAKEN FROM THIS WORLD
YOU LEFT BEHIND THOSE YOU LOVE
AND WENT TO LIVE WITH THE LORD ABOVE
MY DAUGHTER I MISS YOU OH SO MUCH
WITH EVERY TEAR I'VE CRIED
BUT THE TEARS CAN NEVER WASH AWAY
THE PAIN I FEEL INSIDE
I HAVE TO BE STRONG AND CARRY ON
ALLTHOUGH MY HEART IS TORN
I GRIEVE WITH EVERY BREATH I TAKE
FOREVER I WILL MOURN
YOU LEFT BEHIND YOUR FAMILY
WHO MISS YOU VERY MUCH
AT TIMES WE WANT TO REACH FOR YOU
TO FEEL YOUR TENDER TOUCH
I HAVE TO LIVE OUT EVERY DAY
FOR THOSE YOU LEFT BEHIND
A SISTER, TWO BROTHERS,AND YOUR LAST GIFT
A BLESSING SWEET AND KIND
FOR WHEN YOU WHERE CALLED AWAY THAT NIGHT
YOU LEFT YOUR LITTLE BOY
A SWEET REMINDER YOU WHERE HERE
HE FILLS MY LIFE WITH JOY
HE HELPS ME GET THROUGH THE PAIN I FEEL
WITH LAUGHTER, KISSES, AND LOVE
AND I KNOW WE'LL ALL BE TOGETHER SOMEDAY
IN GODS HOME UP ABOVE
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOU HAVE TOUCHED BOTH HEARTS AND SOULS
OF MANY OF YOUR LOVED ONES
AND MANY THAT YOU NEVER GOT TO KNOW
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOU LEFT THIS WORLD WAY TOO SOON
AND A FAMILY THAT MISSES YOU AND
A MOTHER WHO CRIES UNDER EVERY MOON
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOU WAS TOO PRETTY TO STAY VERY LONG
FOR GOD NEEDED YOU IN HEAVEN TO
HELP OTHER ANGELS SING THEIR SONGS
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOUR MOTHER CRIES FOR YOU EVERY NIGHT
BUT YOU WAS CALLED UP TO HEAVEN
WITH YOUR NEW WINGS IN FULL FLIGHT
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOU WILL BE SURELY MISSED
IF I HAD GOT TO KNOW YOU
I WOULD HAVE TREATED YOU LIKE MY SIS
ADRIANNE MARIE FINDLEY
YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED
FROM THE SOULS DOWN HERE
AND THE ONES FROM ABOVE
 
TEEN MOTHER DIES IN WRECK
By Jamie baker - Nantz - Editor of Grant County News
WILLIAMSTOWN - A 10 day old baby lost his mother in a single - vehicle accident which occurred over the weekend.
Adrianne "Andye" Findley, 19, of Dry Ridge, Ky, was killed when the 1987 Chevrolet Blazer she was driving hit a tree.
Andye Findley's mother and step-father were seriously injured in the wreck, which occurred at 10:13 p.m. on Ky 36 near Lincoln Ridge Road in Williamstown. Andye Findley's infant son, Braiden Marcus Riley Comstock, had swelling in his head and a hairline fracture. He was taken by helicopter from St. Elizabeth Medical Center - Grant County to Children's Medical Center in Cincinnati. Deborah Northcutt, Andye Findley's Mother, suffered a concussion, as well as 2 fractured vertibrae and collar-bone. She remains in serious condition at University Hospital. Lewis Hornsby, Andye Findley's step-father, also suffered from broken vertebrae. He remains in fair condition, also at University Hospital.
Police aren't sure why Adrianne Findley's vehicle left the roadway, but believe she may have struck a tree to avoid hitting oncoming vehicles. Andye Findley had to be cut from the wreckage with hydraulic tools. She was put in a helecopter, but died before it left the ground. Grant County Coroner, Marylee Willoby pronounced Andye Findley dead at the scene. Willoby said none of the occupants were wearing seat belts. The baby was in a car seat, which was in the front seat of the vehicle.
Adrianne Findley was born in Ft. Worth, Texas. She was a server at Shanghai Buffet in Dry Ridge and attended Oak Ridge Baptist Church. In 1998, Andye Findley was seriously injured in a hit and run accident. While walking to the Grant County Fair in Crittenden, She and a friend, were struck from behind by a truck. Andye Findley suffered damage to her hand and shoulder. The driver of the truck was never indentified.
Adrianne M. Findley is also survived by two brothers and a sister. Funeral Services are planned for 2 P.M., Dec. 19 at Elliston-Stanley Funeral Home in Williamstown, Kentucky.
 
 
Adrianne Marie Findley, 19
Adrianne Marie Findley, 19, of Dry Ridge, died Saturday, Dec. 14, 2002, from injuries in an automobile accident on Ky. 36 East in Williamstown. She was a waitress at Shanghai Buffet in Dry Ridge and a Member of Oak Ridge Baptist Church in Williamstown.
Survivorors include a 10 day old son, Braiden Marcus Riley Comstock, her mother and step-father, Deborah Ann and Lewis Hornsby, of Dry Ridge, two brothers, Clifton James Findley and Richard Alexander Findley; one sister, Jennifer Rene' Findley of Dry Ridge; maternal grandparents, James Clifton Northcutt of Destin, Florida, and Rosemary Williams of Dry Ridge; and her companion, Nicholas Comstock of Colorado Springs, Colorado.
Funeral services will be held at 2 P.M. on Dec. 19 at Elliston Stanley Funeral Home in Williamstown. Rev. Mike Beasley will officiate. Burial will be in Williamstown Cemetery. Memorials are suggested
to the Adrianne M. Findley Memorial Fund, in care of Elliston- Stanley Funeral Home, Box 130, Williamstown, Kentucky 41097.
    
GRIEVING MOTHER APPRECIATES COMMUNITY SUPPORT
To the Editor,
On Dec. 14, 2002, at 10:13 P.M., the lives of my family changed forever. There was an automobile accident on Ky 36 and my Daughter, Adrianne M. Findley, was injured and died at the scene of the accident. Thanks to the people of this county, such as the firefighters of Williamstown Fire Department, the paramedics, Grant County Sherrif's Deputy Mike Garvey and Kentucky State Trooper Chad Mills who were with Adrianne and held her hand as she died on the scene. I "Thank You" from the bottom
of my heart.
The people of Williamstown and Dry Ridge assisted in the burial of my daughter, Adrianne. I thank Williamstown Baptist Church, Oak Ridge Baptist Church, Grace Baptist Church and their people for their prayers and support during this crisis. I also want to thank Brother Mike Beasley and family for their support and his funeral message. Also, thanks to the patrons of Shoney's Restaurant, Shanghai buffet,
Grant County Middle School and everyone
who gave donations to the Adrianne M. Findley Memorial Funds and to Elliston-Stanley Funeral Home for the cost of the burial of Adrianne M. Findley.
I would also like to thank the people of this county like Donna Smith, Ina Marshall, Linda Moore Murphey, Rene Ecklar, Janelle Sanzenbacker, Lynda Mann, Jackie and Mark Chance, Brother Joe Hall, Sharon Thornberry, Danielle Hardyman, Lawson Northcutt, Pam and Paul Smith, Debbie Nickell and all of Adrianne's friends for
their help, support and a shoulder to cry on. I Thank You and my family also Thanks you.
And, last but not least, would like to thank Jamie Baker-Nantz, editor of the Grant County News for remembering Adrianne from that accident at the Grant County Fair, 5 1/2 years ago. She wrote a really nice artical in the newspaper.
My daughter was buried by the generous people of Grant County, while I slept in a coma at the University of Cincinnati Medical Center. That is why I am writing this letter to you and to all Grant Countians. I owe a
big hug to Deputy Mike Garvey and Trooper Chad Mills.
Thank you very much,
Deborah A. Northcutt
Dry Ridge, Kentucky
 
 
The Day My Heart Broke
The day that my heart broke was 14 December, 2002. It was a very cold Saturday. My Daughter, Andye called me that morning and told me that her 10 day old Son, Braiden's naval cord had fallen off and she wanted me to come over and show her how to set up the baby's bathtub and how to bath him properly. After we finished bathing Braiden, we went to Wal-mart and bought some more paint
and supplies to finish her apartment. Afterwards, we went back to my house and met up with my husband, who had just gotten off work. We had a late lunch and she nursed the baby. After lunch, we loaded up her car. For the life of me, I can not remember why we all went in her car. Why did we take her "car" and not mine? I don't guess I will ever remember why we took her car and not mine. Maybe things might have been a lot different if we had taken my car, but I guess we will never know.
Andye, Braiden, my husband and I got to the basement apartment around 4:00pm that afternoon. Braiden was real fussy and wouldn't settle down to sleep, so Andye had to stay upstairs with him. My husband and I finished all of the work downstairs. We got done about 8:30pm that evening. The basement apartment was all done and ready for Andye to start moving in the next day. My husband was tired and
in a foul mood, because he had been up since 4:30AM. He was also angry, because she didn't help us finish all of the work! Andye was hurting real bad, because her body was producing more milk than the baby could consume. So, I was going to show her how to milk herself and freeze the milk for later use when we got back to my house. We loaded up her car with all of the cleaning equipment. We got in the
car. This is the last thing that I can seem to remember of that night!The rest of that week is what I have learned from everyone else.
We were going down Highway 36, just south of Williamstown. It was about 9:15pm at night. Andye was driving the speed limit. She must have hit a patch of Black ice and slid off of the road. She tried, but she could not get her car back onto the road, because the road and the shoulder were way too different in height. Where she
went off of the road, the road was 8 inches difference to the shoulder. Andye panicked! Before she knew it, she ran out of shoulder and went down the hill and slammed into some trees. We must have hit hard, because the impact slammed me into the side window, which shattered, and it broke my seat belt and I ended up in the floorboard behind the seats. I was unconscious! My Husband was the first one out of the vehicle that night. He was walking around worrying about himself! Andye was pinned in the car by the steering wheel. It had been pushed forward in the impact. There were several cars behind us, and they stopped to help us. They got a crying Braiden out of the car and was holding him when the ambulance arrived. Andye saved my life that night! The ambulance crew looked in the car and only saw her. They didn't see me, because I was in a heap on the floor of the car. To them, I was just a rolled up coat! She pointed it out to the ambulance crew that I was there and needed help! The fire department had to cut off the roof of her car to get us out of the car. After
they got Andye out of the car, they laid her down, while they got me out of the car. By this time, a Sheriff’s Deputy was holding Andye's hand. The Sheriff’s Deputy knew Andye, because his best friend was Andye's best friend's Dad. He was holding her hand and praying with her as she was praying The Prayer of Salvation! Andye knew she was dying and she wanted to make sure that she was right with God. They were loading her into the Helicopter when she started to have problems. Andye had two seizures and then died holding the Sheriff’s Deputy's ha
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